Scripture
1 Timothy 5: 1-2 “Never speak harshly to an older man, but appeal to him respectfully as though he were your own father. Talk to the younger men as you would to your own brothers. Treat the older women as you would your mother, and treat the younger women with all purity as your own sisters.”
Observation
Paul is teaching Timothy how people in the church ought to treat one another. First of all he compares the church to a family. Many people try to run the church like a business. The church is not a business. It is a family. We treat people differently in a family than we do in a business. He told Timothy to:
1) Treat older men like a father. You do not speak to them harshly. You appeal to them. You treat them with respect.
2) Treat older women as your mother. Do not speak to them in a manner you would not speak to your mother.
3) Treat younger men as your brother.
4) Treat younger women as your sister. Here Paul adds one point and that is treat them with all purity. Paul understood the danger of sexual temptation and instructed Timothy to treat younger women as a sister with all purity. Guard yourself from being tempted.
Application
If the church would follow these simple instructions, most conflict would be eliminated. Having unity is the church is not complicated. These instructions are simple. But unity is the church is difficult because of our sinful nature. We want to get our own way and we concentrate on how we should be treated rather than focusing on treating others right.
I must set an example in the church. I treat members of the church like family. I do not overlook their sins but I do respect and love them. We are members of the family of God.
Prayer
Forgive me for the times I have acted selfishly. I want to be other person centered. I am a member of your family and I want to treat everyone with love, respect, kindness, honesty, etc. I want to value them as family and add value to their lives.